I fell back asleep after she left. When I woke up, I found her diamond earring and a pair of shorts she wore under her jeans on the floor. I sent her a pic of me in the shorts pulled halfway down with my left tit and stomach exposed. “You secretly wanna see me again,

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A sunny Saturday afternoon in Napa. Running errands, working on my batch of Limoncello. I made plans to meet a girlfriend for a drink after she got off work in the early evening. I had profiles on Tinder, Feeld, Bumble, POF, and Ok Cupid. With the latter, I set my profile to only look for

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I arrived back to my sister’s house at about midnight. She was waiting up for me to say good-bye because she was leaving on a business trip early the following morning. I put the key in the front door, and she opened it before I could unlock it. She gave me a kiss and a

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The day after The BJ, I invited Scandi over to my place despite being nervous about being date raped in my own apartment. I had a bad gut feeling, but the danger was intriguing, attractive somehow. Would you like a surprise when you arrive? I would. Ok, I’ll leave the front door open for you. Just

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I matched with the Irishman on Tinder about a week ago. He actually lives 4,968 miles away in, well, Ireland some place. He’s planning to come to the Bay Area to scope it out this summer and then plans to move here late in the year. 6’1″, 27, fucking Irish!, fit – oh so fit,

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Scandi was tall, tattooed fun and he obviously challenged my brain – see “Is Orgasm the Point of Sex?” for more. 43, 6’4″, Scandinavian, Californian, grabby from second one after meeting, involuntary facial tick on the left side of his face, shifty, not as tight as I had hoped, thinks himself clever, all about that

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Nerdie is appropriately named – nerdy and cutie. What a sweetheart. Knowing I have no family to speak of on the West Coast, he invited me to eat both Thanksgiving and Christmas Dinner with his just weeks after we first met. On Friday, December 23, after “My First Kill,” I went to his company Christmas party.

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Not surprisingly, there is an app to find, let’s just say, alternative sex and relationships called Feeld. You create a profile just like you do on all the others. The difference is you peruse kinky singles and couples looking for everything from BDSM to unicorns to cuddling to public nudity and everything you can and

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Over the holiday break, I went to visit my family back east in New Jersey. Now that I’m single, I was looking forward to seeing Diamonds. We’ve known each other for years since he works for my brother-in-law in his bail bonds business. My sister and brother-in-law throw a big bash at their house every year

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I actually met Wino just before PhD and I were officially separated. Meeting and being attracted to him is what actually prompted me to tell PhD I wanted to see other people, basically since I knew in my gut he was cheating on me, but wouldn’t admit it. 6′, 29 (now 31…now 37 and married!),

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